function AddFriend(obj,sTextToAddBefore,sUserName,userId,icon,container) {
			if (!protectMembers()) return false;

			var sUser = (sUserName || sUsername);
			icon=icon || "~";
			
			if (obj.innerHTML.toLowerCase().replace(/<a>/gi,"").replace(/<\/a>/gi,"").indexOf("confirm friend") > -1)
			{
			   $.ajax({
				   type: "POST",
				   url: ROOT_URL+"pro-friends.asp",
				   data: {act:"confirmFriend",id:userId},
				   success: function(msg){
						MessageBox(396,105,"Got it! close this message","<span>You are now friends with <span class=\"color3\">~</span>"+sUser+".</span>",true,null,true);
						if (sTextToAddBefore != null)
						{
							obj.innerHTML = sTextToAddBefore + (sUserName!=null?"R":"r")+"emove friend";
						} else {
							obj.innerHTML = "<div class=\"nav nav2\"></div>remove friend";
						}
				   }
			   });
				
			} else if (obj.innerHTML.toLowerCase().replace(/<a>/gi,"").replace(/<\/a>/gi,"").indexOf("remove friend") > -1)
			{
			
				MessageBox(396,119,"Yes! remove this friend","<span>Are you sure you want to remove <span class=\"color3\">~</span>"+sUser+" from your friends list? (press the X button to cancel)</span>",true,function() {
				
				   $.ajax({
					   type: "POST",
					   url: ROOT_URL+"pro-friends.asp",
					   data: {act:"delete",id:userId},
					   success: function(msg){
							if (sTextToAddBefore != null)
							{
								obj.innerHTML = sTextToAddBefore + (sUserName!=null?"A":"a")+"dd to friends";
							} else {
								obj.innerHTML = "<div class=\"nav nav2\"></div>add to friends";
							}
					   }
				   });

				},true);
						

			} else {
			   $.ajax({
				   type: "POST",
				   url: ROOT_URL+"pro-friends.asp",
				   data: {act:"sendRequest",id:userId},
				   success: function(msg){
						MessageBox(396,105,"Got it! close this message","<span>A friend request has been sent to <span class=\"color3\">~</span>"+sUser+"</span>",true,null,true);
						if (sTextToAddBefore != null)
						{
							obj.innerHTML = sTextToAddBefore + (sUserName!=null?"A":"a")+"waiting confirmation";
							container.onclick=container.onmouseover=null;
						} else {
							obj.innerHTML = "<div class=\"nav nav2\"></div>awaiting confirmation";
						}
				   }
			   });
			}
		}